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Monday, December 2, 2013

Handling Holiday Depression



This is an article from my files from when I wrote for the Somerset Times Weekly. (2008-2012) I feel it is still relevant.

  Emotions can either rise because of the Christmas season or close in on a person who feels unloved or put upon by others. Studies show that four to six percent of Americans suffer post-Christmas depression. Many of these people are isolated from family and friends, not necessarily by social distress but by choice. Many sufferers begin getting depressed before the holiday and slowly begin the isolation process, overwhelmed by the stress of shopping and resentment of pressure from what to give to who gets what. This makes the person close in on him or herself and seek to be alone, wanting the noise, and bustle to be over so their lives can get back to normal routine. Some people feel pressured by the Christmas Carols played extensively in stores and public PA systems. The songs meant for joy and festive ambiance heightening the emotional stress. These feelings can become dangerously extreme by the New Year.


  People who have lost loved ones during the year feel the loss more because they don’t have that person in their lives to enjoy the gift exchange, food, or parties. The void is sometimes impossible to fill even through many years. Facing the New Year can be tough for those living with such a loss.

Friday, September 13, 2013

Eve's Wonderful Purpose



“And Adam called his wife’s name Eve, because she was the mother of all living” Genesis 3:20.


  God instigated the first marriage by making a woman for the man. God created Adam, Eve, and the marriage of man and woman. This union was beautiful in God's eyes because it made a whole person from two distinct and different personalities. 

Man and woman think differently, react differently, manage differently, and cope differently. By marrying the two, the bond makes stronger the abilities of each to live a new life made by becoming one.

There were no others created to be brought together in this union. By calling her Eve, Adam recognized the privilege and responsibility God gave him of taking care of this wonderful second half of the duo created on the sixth day. 

Created by the Almighty God as a vital part of His plan, there is no shame in a woman fulfilling her part in God’s universe, and being a wife, if she chooses the God-honoring bonding of marriage with a man.

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